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Carer Identification

It takes two years on average for someone to identify themselves as a carer. Many people consider caring as part and parcel of family life and see themselves primarily as a partner, wife, son, sibling, cousin, parent or a close friend. As a result they can miss out on vital support. - Carers UK

It’s likely that every one of us will have caring responsibilities at some time in our lives with the challenges faced by carers taking many forms. Many carers juggle their caring responsibilities with work, study and other family commitments. - NHS England

I AM A CARER

I care for my husband, I am a Carer!

My husband can not live without my support. Everything from eating and drinking to washing and toileting. He has a disability that without my help, he could not live at home with his family where he belongs!

So why did it take me so long to identify as a Carer?

Simple, He is my Husband and I am his Wife, its my job to look after him in his hour of need.

Caring responsibilities can creep up on you and before you know it, someone you love can not do it without you!

This is ME, is this YOU?

Actually I am not just a Carer .................. I am a Nurse, a Doctor, managing health issues, supporting disabilities and conditions, administrating medication, being a Counsellor and Therapist, proving mental health support.

A Barber, Beautician, and Wardrobe Consultant, which is no mean feat when dealing with complex situations and disability support.

I am a Secretary and Personal Assistant, managing diaries, appointments, dealing with professional services and equipment installation and servicing, and learning how to use them. With a health issue of my own in the mix, is some achievement at times.

A Bookkeeper, juggling finances and budgeting on a shoestring. I could even write a self help book for ways to make your money go further ........ and do! These are just a few of my qualities and skills, no training, just learning on the job.

My caring responsibilities are not just caring, they extend to many professions rolled up into one.